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  • Writer's pictureLaura Stubbs

Picking the Perfect Engagement Ring

Updated: Apr 22

Picking the right engagement ring is an exciting and meaningful step in your romantic journey. It's a symbol of your love and commitment and a piece of jewelry that will be cherished forever. But with countless options and factors to consider, the process can sometimes feel overwhelming. Here are some tips to help you navigate the world of engagement rings and make the perfect choice for your partner.

Bride wears engagement ring

Bride Wearing Engagement Ring

Know Your Budget Before you start shopping for an engagement ring, it's essential to establish a budget. Engagement rings come in a wide range of prices, and knowing your budget will help you narrow down your options and prevent overspending. The rule used to be that you would spend the equivalent of two months' salary but that has become an outdated custom. It was created by the diamond companies to encourage higher spending but nowadays people base their budget more on financial ability and other essential expenses in their life. Remember that while the ring is significant, it's just one part of your journey together.

Engagement Ring and Wedding Band

Understand the Four Cs

When it comes to picking the right engagement ring, it's helpful to understand the four Cs: cut, colour, clarity, and carat weight. These characteristics determine the overall quality and appearance of the diamond.

  • Cut: The cut refers to how well the diamond has been shaped and faceted and determines how well it interacts with light. A well-cut diamond will sparkle brilliantly.

  • Colour: Diamonds are graded on a colour scale from D (colourless) to Z (light yellow or brown). Diamonds with less colour are rarer and therefore more valuable.

  • Clarity: Clarity refers to the absence of tiny imperfections or "inclusions" and surface irregularities or "blemishes" within the diamond. Higher-clarity diamonds are more valuable.

  • Carat Weight: This represents the apparent size of the diamond. Typically the greater the carat weight, the rarer and more valuable the diamond. Remember though that a larger carat weight doesn't necessarily mean a more beautiful ring. Balance is key.

Once you understand the C's, determine which of these is most important to you and your partner. Once you know what aspects you want to prioritize you can factor those into your budget and narrowing down the ring options.

Oval Engagement Ring

Understand Diamond Shapes & Cuts

Be sure to know the difference between a diamond's shape and its cutting style. Shape refers to the diamond's outline when viewed face up. This includes round, pear, oval, rectangle, marquise, square and heart, with round being the most popular. Whereas the diamond's cut refers to how the facets are arranged. Facets are the flat surfaces of a gemstone that are arranged in a geometrical pattern. Depending on how a diamond is cut, the facets cause optical effects on the stone's surface because of how they interact with light. This is what causes diamonds to sparkle. The "brilliant cut" maximizes a diamond's brightness making it the most popular cut.

Round Shape Brilliant Cut Engagement Ring

The most popular shape and cut combination is a round shape with a brilliant cut. This has roughly 58 facets and is also typically the most expensive.

Bride and Groom Engagement Ring

Choose the Right Metal

The metal for the ring setting can significantly impact the overall look and style of the engagement ring. Common options include platinum, white gold, yellow gold, rose gold, and even mixed metals. Consider your partner's personal style and skin tone when making this decision.

Engagement Ring Wedding Band

Understand Your Partner's Style

Take some time to observe your partner's style when it comes to jewelry. Are they more inclined towards classic, vintage, modern, or minimalist designs? Do they prefer traditional or unique settings? Knowing their style will help you pick an engagement ring that suits their taste perfectly.

Bride and Groom Engagement Ring

Consider Customization

If you want to create a truly unique and meaningful engagement ring, consider customizing it. You can work with a jeweller to design a ring that incorporates elements that are special to your relationship, such as birthstones or unique engravings. Customization adds a personal touch that can make the ring even more sentimental.

Bride Pours Sparkling Wine Wearing Engagement Ring

Think About Ring Size Getting the right ring size is essential. You can discreetly ask your partner's friends or family members for their size or borrow a ring that your partner currently wears. Resizing an engagement ring can be done but might affect the integrity of the design, so it's best to get it right the first time.

Seek Guidance from Trusted Sources

When buying an engagement ring, it's important to shop with reputable jewellers or online retailers with good reviews and ratings. Don't be afraid to ask questions and seek guidance from experts. They can provide valuable insights and help you make an informed decision.

Mother Helps Bride Put On Rings

Don't Rush the Decision

Choosing the perfect engagement ring is a significant decision, so take your time. Don't rush into it or feel pressured to make a quick choice. Give yourself the space to explore different options, compare prices, and gather information before making a final decision.

Engagement Ring and Wedding Bands

Consider Ethical Sourcing

Many couples today are concerned about the ethical sourcing of diamonds and other precious gemstones. Look for jewellers who provide ethically sourced and conflict-free options. This ensures that your beautiful symbol of love doesn't come at the expense of human rights or the environment.

Trust Your Instincts

Lastly, trust your instincts and follow your heart! After considering all of the practical factors, the most important thing is that the engagement ring feels right for both you and your partner. It should symbolize your love and commitment, so choose a ring that brings joy and excitement to your hearts.

Engagement Ring

Remember, the perfect engagement ring is not just about its physical attributes but also the love and commitment it represents. So, take your time, trust your instincts, and choose a ring that will be treasured for a lifetime.

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